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Tuesday, April 28, 2009

I Am A Chemistry Teacher

Every secondary school teacher in the nation is assigned 2 teaching subjects and mine are: #1: Chemistry and #2: Biology. Been marking test scripts recently for both my subjects and I must say marking scripts for Biology can kill. All the long answers without relevant points. Not to mention horrible handwriting at times or arrows here and there when students write all over the page =.=

Marking chemistry scripts are so much easier. The nature of the subject makes it have less tendency for students write long essays for a something as short as a 2M question.
Bless my soul that Chemistry is my 1st teaching subject.

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Sunday, April 26, 2009

Eternal Object Under Possession of Others

Am here posting a random thought that stemmed from the talk I had just awhile ago with my parents at the dinner table. Random it may be but somehow very true to me (at least for now) - Women are objects of possession.

When young girls belong to their parents; everything they do had to be granted permission from the almighty authority of parents. When they grow up to become women, they are still under their parents' possession. Until the very day they change their surnames when they are married to their husbands, they are still under the possession of somebody, only now it's a change of owners - their husband.

Hmpf.........................!!!

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Sunday, April 19, 2009

Exam Stress

In my days as a student, at least once a year during major exams like MYE or EOY, I'd always be down with some kind of illness one way or another just before the exams. My parents call it the pre-exam stress.

Somehow this predicament never escape me even now when I'm working as a school teacher. MYE is in 2 weeks time for my kids and I've just recovered from food poisoning a few days back and now it seems like the flu virus has hit me.

Sigh~~ let me just survive this 2 weeks and hopefully I'm able to break out of the vicious cycle of falling sick before exams in my years as a school teacher...

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Couch Potato Days

Recently chanced upon Hana Yori Dango (korean vers.) trailers while surfing the internet. Watching the trailers really made me missed the secondary school days...

Those were the days which my girlfriends and I would rush and hang out at 1 of the girl's condo whereby we had the whole condo unit to ourselves. During a period of time we'd all go to her place and faithfully catch every episode of the Meteor Garden (Taiwan's version of Hana Yori Dango).

Thinking back now, really reminisce the days of drama marathon with the gals. At that point in time, it wasn't so much of the drama plot for me, but more of the idea of spending time with beloved friends, being couch potatoes and munching on titbits together while discussing fervently about the plot and characters..........

Boring it may sound to some, but watching & enjoying a drama together with loved ones can be some of the simplest yet enjoyable way to enjoy each others' company. Can be a pretty cosy thing to do (for me at least)

Back to the latest Korean vers. of Hana Yori Dango; the trailers are really tantalising me.....
Can't wait teaching practicum to end in may. By then I shall give myself a treat by being a couch potato and enjoy the drama serial!!!

Calling to buddies out there reading this thread, anyone out there up to watching it together? ;P

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Sunday, April 5, 2009

The Voca People

Came across this amazing video on The Voca People at :
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N6EYrqIn0yI

Really amazing vocal group, bringing beatboxing and acapella singing to a greater level!!Simply wowed by the music arrangement and harmony of the people! Just one word - awesome!!!

Somehow watching this video made me miss the days when I sang in choir and tried acapella (though it was kinda a disaster >.<)! And I must say I haven't gone for a choral concert for some time already...fond memories...

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Saturday, April 4, 2009

人生如戏

Scene 1: Secluded corner of the school

At 13:

B isobbing away. Backed turn, not noticing, A, a stranger has approached crying B.

A: "Here, have a tissue" (Gentle voice)
(B looks at the stranger while frantically trying to dab tears away)

A: "What has happened that has upset you?"
(B stills looks at the stranger with a wary eye, not saying anything)

A: "Hmm...well I don't know exactly what has upset you, but a person's tears are precious. And precious stuff should not be wasted. Always save the best for the last, same for tears. No matter how difficult or unhappy are times or things, take a deep breath & you can tide it over" (twinkles an eye and slowly walked away)

(At this point B stunned at the stranger's advice, stared after A's back as A left. B stood to the spot, somehow calmer than before crying)

The advice of the tears as something precious had stayed with B for 10 years. No matter how hard times were or how difficult were things, the tears were always reserved for a more precious moment.

>>>>>>Fast forwarded

Scene ? (dark bedroom of B)

At 23:

However, things have been so overwhelming around B that the advice had failed sustain the tears. There was so much stress and pressure around that B just broke down uncontrollably.
B knew there was nothing crying could do relieve the stress, but somehow that was the only thing to do as B could tell no one of the troubles and stress faced. B could only resort to the silent sobs at night in the corner of the bed...

For that moment, all B wished was a comforting figure to pass a tissue, to say comforting words and a pair warm hands for a pat on the back or even a hug to tide over the times, even if it's just momentarily...

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The Wake Through My Eye + Random

今天到一位好友家吊丧。好友的奶奶过世了。吊丧时的感触良多。以前总会害怕出席丧礼;有一种莫名的恐惧。可能常到好友家做客,所以对这位奶奶有种亲切感,所以这次的吊丧唯有哀丧及平静。哀丧因为和蔼可亲的奶奶走了;平静因为病了已久奶奶似乎得到了解脱。

在丧礼碰见这位好友的其他死党;深深地体会到一点-低落时出现的人才是真正能让你依赖的人。似乎体会‘患难见真情’的含义。也领悟到,有时安慰人无须用安慰的话。肢体语言也可以很好的表达安慰。一个拥抱或静静的坐在她旁边也可以让一个人感到安慰。

在吊丧时想起,曾在大学里碰见一位同学,他说过:“各奔前程后的同学往往会为生活而忙忙碌碌, 很少有机会见面。甚至机会少得只有两种情况下大家能聚会:-1)办喜事时(婚礼、满月等);2)办丧事时。” 

所以也在丧礼碰见一位好一段时间没见的朋友。与她聊天时,领悟到,关怀与安慰并非向人讨或暗示。即使不多说,真正关心你的人能感受到你失落的心情而给予你所需要的鼓励及安慰。从这点,学会告诉自己不求别人的关心或许对自己会好点。

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